A Mum Slide Show
June 4, 2009

My baptism

Being the fourth child of a family, I’m pretty used to the idea that there is no photo record of my existence until I’m about 15. [Insert melodic violin music] My parents weren’t great photo takers, or so I thought. This was until I realised we had reams and reams of diapositivas or photo slides. My sister recently purchased a scanner which has allowed us to upload some of the photos to 21st century technology. It’s been one of the most amazing family journeys I’ve ever been on.

Seeing the old photos of family time before I was around feels like entering a time machine and being given a  ’Christmas Carol’ opportunity (but without the need for all the bah-humbugging).  Of course I’d seen photos of the family before, and without even realising, I’d imagined my own family world centred around these snaps. Seeing Mum with her 70s gear on, being a young Mum with young children opened up a whole new chapter of our families’ story.

Mum and Dad and my siblings all lived in Spain for six years and I’d never really pictured that life as anything but an extended holiday, so I relished the opportunity to peer in on the family celebrating all the young birthdays with ‘Felicidades’ instead of ‘congratulations’ on the cakes.

Mum had three children under 4 in Spain, it wasn’t until they returned to Ireland that they had me (their Irish sprog). There’s even photos of that too. The photo above is of my Christening, by far the earliest photo of me I’ve ever seen.

It’s amazing as now with the digital age all our family photos are so accessible, and easy to share. There’s something to be said for putting the work in before getting a treat like these old slides!

Chup-chup
December 9, 2008

warm-stewIf you ever asked Mum to give you directions somewhere she always started with ‘You know how to get there’ and then would proceed to give the worst directions, it drove me insane!

It was a similar case when it came to cooking instructions. Mum was a brilliant cook, but didn’t really do the whole recipe thing. Everything was based around taste-testing, butter and lots of salt, resulting in something totally delicious, heartwarming yet potentially heart stopping. If you asked Mum how to cook any certain meal she’d tell you the ingrediants but accidently leave out vital parts of it, assuming you’d just know that it included beef or chicken or the main bit of the meal. (I don’t have that cooking instinct!) 

A lot of Mum’s cooking technique was letting things ‘chup-chup’ in other words simmer for hours on end. I think she got this from living in Spain. We certainly benefited from lots of ‘chup-chupped’ meals.

Lust for Life
December 5, 2008

chocolate-cookieNot many people can get away with being enthusiastic about absolutely everything in life. Mum was enthusiastic about us, her children and all of the larger things in life which I think is a great sign of a positive enthusiastic person.

However, it was Mum’s reaction to the small aspects of life that was so refreshingly positive.  When Mum tasted the latest Tesco Finest chocolate biscuit range or the newest melt in your mouth desert, it wasn’t enought to just love it, Mum would say “I’m glad I lived to taste this!” Plenty of other people were glad too!

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